I just noticed it, so I’ll write it down.
There may not be anyone who understands this alone, but I think there are people who can understand it if you think about it.
Unhappy people live by making things that do not exist exist in this world.
This is the cause of misery.
It is unfortunate because we live on the assumption that something that has not been confirmed to exist yet exists.
I have never confirmed the ideal parent.
There is nothing that I thought “must be like this” from the outside.
What is the one that you experience, confirm, and accurately recognize as “existing”?
There is nothing.
The reason I mourn in reality is that I haven’t even confirmed whether it exists or not, and even though I haven’t even experienced it, I’m convinced that it’s there.
There is nothing in the world that I wanted.
If you take it for granted, you will not be unhappy, but if you think that something that does not exist, including yourself, exists, you will be unhappy.
If I thought I had a good personality, I would feel that I was being bullied even if I had a bad personality and was hated.
In that way, misery is born.
What is your actual self?
What kind of person are you now?
What kind of person is your parent actually?
The only thing that is actually needed is reality.
Therefore, if you leave only the things that are true in the world of cognition and recognize them as “things that you do not understand yet”, the misfortune will disappear.
Even so, it’s fun to fry Chinese shrimp.
It makes me want to do it without any particular meaning.